Adopt a star
Everyone should adopt a star, and I recommend choosing yours with the aid of planetarium software such as Starstrider. Choosing it from the sky at night without a telescope is more limiting, obviously.
I expect many people (probably the more extroverted sort, on the whole) would gravitate towards the biggest and brightest stars such as Betelgeuse, whereas people who are more like me would try and go for a star that nobody else would choose: just another star in the crowd whose significance lies simply in the fact that you chose it. (Well, you might have some other reason that guides your selection, but in the end that’s what it boils down to.) Either way, you shouldn’t rush into the choice; it has to be a star you can live with.
Of course, my star is HIP 20740. From a terrestrial perspective it’s about 400 light years away, slightly to the Orion side of the Hyades, and has an apparent magnitude of 9.2 (in other words well and truly invisible to the naked eye).
